5 Rules for Forwarding Email

Email Forwarding Guidelines

Forwarding of emails is one of the topics I get contacted about the most. And, one which also causes hurt feelings and misunderstandings more than other topics.

What is “nice way” of telling someone to stop the forwarding? You care about that relative, friend or associate but don’t want the attachments, religious and political commentary or the jokes they keep sending.

Most onliners are afraid to ask others to stop. Those who are asked to stop, no matter how nicely, tend to get offended. Many feeling their thoughtfulness is not appreciated.

But let’s think about this a moment…

How really thoughtful is it to click the forward arrow, add a bunch of email addresses and hit send? Well, your brain had to “think” about those steps but does that make that effort truly “thoughtful”?

Before You Forward Email

Here are the 5 guidelines to consider when forwarding emails that those who are being truly thoughtful follow. If everyone followed these simple little rules all the problems associated with forwarded emails could be avoided.

1. Don’t forward anything without editing out all the other forwarding >>>>.

Remove other email addresses as well as headers and commentary from all the other forwarders. Don’t make folks look among all the gobbledygook to see what it is you thought was worth forwarding.

You want to only forward the actual “guts” or content of the email that you are of the opinion is valuable. (Check out these free program to help you out: Email Stripper. For Macs: TextSoap 7.)

2. If you cannot take the time to write a personal comment.

Either type a brief comment to the person you are sending to at the top of your forwarded email. Can’t do that? Then you shouldn’t forward it at all.

3. Think carefully about if what you are forwarding will be of value.

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Will the email be appreciated (something the recipient needs)? Is the email humorous (do they have the same sense of humor as you do)? Ask these questions first.

Or do you just think it is worthy? If you cannot think of why the person you are forwarding to would like to receive the email – then don’t forward it.

4. NSFW Forwarding

Not Safe For Work means you shouldn’t forward in the first place. It should go without saying (but I have to say it because folks do so anyway). Be respectful of yours and others employer’s time and resources.

If on company time using company email — think not twice, but three times if forwarding is worth the risk of your on the job credibility and professionalism being diminished.

5. Respect Privacy

If you must forward to more than one person, put your email address in the TO: field and all the others you are sending to in the BCc: field to protect their email address from being published to those they do not know.

This is a serious privacy issue. Do not perpetuate a breach of privacy started by other forwarders who included their contact’s addresses in the To: or Cc: field by continuing to forward those visible addresses to your contacts.

Remove any email addresses in the body of the email that was forwarded by those who brush off the privacy of their friends and associates.

Make the Effort

The above 5 guidelines will help qualify if an email is worth forwarding and the right way to do so if it is. If these efforts cannot be made, then there is no excuse to get mad or have hurt feelings when asked to stop.

And if asked to stop forwarding, one shouldn’t get mad; just realize the person on the other side certainly has the right to make that request. Then if you forward at all, make sure you forward only communications of value.

Copyright and Trust

On an aside, also keep in mind that if you are forwarding a private email that was sent to you, you must get the sender’s permission to forward it on to others (or post it publicly). Emails are copyright protected by their authors.

Not only that, common courtesy dictates that you should ask the author first if the email sent for your eyes only can be forwarded to strangers. It is their their choice if their emails will be exposed to those which it was not originally intended.

At the end of the day, when it comes to receiving unwanted forwarded emails, if you fear hurting someone’s feelings by asking them to stop, know they probably meant well, were really thinking of you, were trying to make a point – ahhh, just hit delete!

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